Sunday, May 20, 2012

Seatbelts Save Lives

“It is important to live for the moment in the present, as ‘now’ is all we are ever promised.” – Danielle Vermitsky


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Venti Starbucks coffee = $2.41, Cracked iPhone = $400.00, Totaled Mazda 6 = $27,425.00, Walking away from the accident and not a single scratch = PRICELESS!

It was December 5, 2010 and the final payment came out for my car.  It was my first brand new car I had purchased and paid off myself.  What a sigh of relief and I told my mother.  She congratulated me and said “enjoy, you maintain it very well and it will go another 170k miles.” 


I loved that car.    


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After the snow storm of December 2010, it was a Sunday night and met the boy at Starbucks.  The ride up 168 South was horrific as they did not plow so on the way home I decided to take the AC Expressway as that surely had to be clear. 


It was clear all right, so clear I didn’t see the black ice patch I hit that sent my Mazda in a whirlwind of crazy moves before it flipped into the gully on the side of the road.  I sat there thinking “Ooops!” as my cell phone was cracked and dangling in my face from the console charger, I presumed I was flipped upside down at that point.  I grabbed the phone and was able to navigate the home screen to call my mother; I told her I had a little fender bender.  She was like “Oh no, where are you?”  I replied, “Oh you know just sitting here on the AC Expressway in a gully upside down.”  She was not amused, but gathered my father and they were on their way.  Three men pulled over to help me and I remember hearing them, one yelled “I have an axe in my truck so I am going to see if I can smash the back window and we can try to get to the person out.”  I remember yelling “Oh no don’t break my window, I am ok – just don’t break my window.” 


Then the thought occurred to me that maybe breaking the back window would not make a difference as I sat there in a pile of snow with a shattered windshield and being flipped upside down perhaps put a few dents in my car. 


The men were able to break the back window and pull me out.  Next thing I remember is the police, ambulance, fire trucks and my parents showing up.  Police officer said to me “license and registration.”  I looked at him ready to roll my eyes, but kindly replied, “The registration is in the glove compartment and is locked and license is in my handbag.”  He was not amused as he had to trek to the car and try and find everything.  He came back a half hour later with my handbag and registration, I opened my handbag and was like “Oh yeah I forgot, my license is in the center console of the car.”  He said to me, “Are you serious” as he scurried back to the car to find.


Everything became settled, police officer declared this a no fault accident due to natural causes and my car was towed away. 


Next day my mother spoke with the insurance company and adjuster and said they would send the car to Rocco’s Collision to have it repaired.  I was very happy as I thought my orange ‘punkin’ was totaled.  I went to the tow place to sign the paperwork to have it sent to Rocco’s and when I saw my car I said to the guy “Oh wow, I can’t believe that is fixable.”  He burst out laughing as he said “Honey the only people who have seen this car is you and me – this will ultimately be sent to the junk yard.”  As it turns out he was right.  My mother and I went to Rocco’s and gather my stuff out of the car and as we left my mother saw a tear stream down my face and she said “go back around, get out and say good bye again, I’ll wait in the car.”  I did just that and also stole a floor mat as a keepsake. 


I share this story as a lesson as you never know when life will flip upside down, literally.  I was very lucky to walk away with not even a scratch, just a few aches and pains the following days, but all fixable.  However, it seems we take so much for granted these days that we miss out on enjoying the present for what it is.  I could have easily been sent to the graveyard in a matter of a split second, but instead my car was sent to the junk yard.  It also, goes to prove that material items are just that.  They are nice to have, but not worth needing or stressing over; while I loved that car, I am still alive without it.  The real items worth needing are the good times and laughs with family and friends as well as the heart to heart chats that make everything all better.  So just enjoy and do something in the ‘NOW.’  






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